Sex Talk with PJ
SEX TALK with Pastor Joseph Edet .....
A man can travel for eight hours just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her. Sex makes men act as if they are in love. The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is art of true love. Sex is not an art of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes.
It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from America to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.
Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not in the same page even in dictionary. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all.
I worked with a marketing company years back. There was this chocolate that was sold for #5000 naira. I had a young man that was buying it everyday for almost six months. Each time he comes, a particular young lady follows him. When he buys the chocolate, she starts eating it right inside there. The #5000 will go down the drain in my presence and she would get some other few things and the young man pays.
A time came, they were not coming. I thought either of them had moved out of town but one day, the girl came. I asked after the young man. She hissed and said, 'He has gotten what he wanted from me and abandoned me. Men and sex'.
I punched my calculated and discovered that the young man had already spent on chocolate what would build a house. He spent #130,000 in a month and #780,000 in six months on chocolate when a bag of cement was sold for #1500. All was for the fun of sex and he let go the same girl. He must have been spending for her on other expensive things somewhere else. Finally, that young man may be a tenant in another man's house.
If we believe too much in sex, it starts taking everything away from us. Sex distracts. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school? This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation building graduates. Today, a 17 year old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.
Thefunny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well with in life? They have sold their souls out to sex. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted. When will we come to our true senses?
Sir, what can a man do to help the situation. It seems sex is a strong driving force moving some men to Land of anguish and destiny destruction..
firstly let me begin with these....
Anyone who is ready for relationship should be ready for marriage........
If you don't want to get marry then don't go into relationship, reasons are because relationship give birth to marriage.
Therefore, I will say,if you know you can't hold your self as a man then don't enter into a relationship yet,still hold on still when you're ready for marriage and when you're ready be mindful during your courting period so as not to have sex and don't court with a lady for years, atleast 2 years is OK.....
you can go through your page sir.
There are many reasons why guys ask for sex and also ladies too ask for us.
Let's say Sex is something that it's suppose to be enjoyed during marriage.
But many has taken the advantages to have it before wedding.
They ask for sex because they can't hold them selves and they are use to having it.
it's something that once you have knowledge of you can't easily stop it.
Let give drop some other few point why they ask for sex too.
Mostly its because of ladies in how they do things.
1. Dress Code -Dressing to expose your body parts.
2. How you sit -Seating in puplic opening all your legs.
3. Torching them alot -Hugging, Holding them at every single time etc.
4. Calling then pet names
5. Praise them too much.
7. Meeting them in dark and lonely place.
Let stop here......
God Bless you daughter..